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2026-08-26

Accept that you don't find most things fun. You can still lead a life worth living, and you can still find a partner.

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I nowadays seem to enjoy some hobbies for some short period of time because of novelty, and then eventually the interest fades.
This is fine? Accept that this is fine.
You are not a fun person. You do not in fact get sustained happiness/joy/fun/etc from most things in life. You are a novelty addict above all else, this is true across multiple facets of your life.
You can just rotate between a bunch of novel experiences, this is fine.
You are still alive as of age 25. You have not killed yourself yet. I daresay I am actually doing Average over the last couple months, whereas I would have typically have said Below Average. Very important
You can find a partner even if you don't find most things fun. Like yes, this is clearly a handicap. Atleast in superficial 60 second judgments, most women seem to basically prioritise looks, status and humour/fun. You not being a fun or humorous person is a handicap. But you can still find someone. Don't stress so much about it.
Attempt to improve your stats ofcourse, put full effort. But don't stress too much if some of the stats are resistant to change.
And meet actual women lol instead of just theorising, this helps a lot with the anxiety.

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