2026-08-12
Which places in India are statistically likely to contain women who appreciate the types of value I offer?
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- personal
- target audience - strictly myself
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- See also: Date me
- See also: Dating and my outlier traits
- I'm clearly uninterested in the mainstream dating standards which is basically looks, humour, status, and mainstream status hierarchy which is basically corporate job, hobbies, getting along with both families, etc
- Some things I am outlier extreme on include: IQ, honesty, independence, courage, protectiveness
- I am looking for atheist liberal women so that is obviously another filter.
- For IQ, honesty and independence, my current circles in tech startups are actually not bad. Some people inclined towards academia also count here (not all value "independence" but some do).
- For courage and protectiveness, however, I actually wonder if I should be spending more time around army people lol. My guess is they are low independence, respect chain-of-command, etc, but atleast they value courage and protectiveness.
- There are some places where I can find such people, maybe I should visit them more. [Rest of details private.]
- I am also not that interested in the whole politics and art/music/dance cluster? Like, I am interested but I am not that interested. Like, if I could guarantee a balanced gender ratio in both places, my guess is that I would rather learn combat-adjacent skills like radio and shooting and swimming and (ofcourse) hacking and so on, than I would learn more music and dance and whatever.
- Note to self - No more theorising, actually go attend atleast a few events in such places and then report back.
- Update - Based on Big Five results, I should also include high openness to experience and high conscientiousness here
- I don't know, I feel like high openness to experience filters in a very different direction compared to some of the other traits listed. I think I am still open to new experiences but in small doses only. So while I can appreciate someone else who is high openness to experience, I can't fully join them in all their whatever.
- Ending note because I said no more theorising.
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