2026-06-01

# Dating has bad feedback loops and is personalised

Disclaimer
 - personal
 - target audience - strictly myself

Main
 - I think I understand most of the generic stuff about dating. The problem is anything beyond that is super personalised. Only people who are similar to you **and** successful at dating are in a position to give good advice. Otherwise it is pretty hard to find one-size-fits-all advice that works for everyone.
 - Even the most basic advice people give me I'm like, wait, why should I trust this advice? Is this person similar to me? Have they successfully kept a relationship they made this way for 5 years? And if not then why should I follow it?