2026-06-06

# Networking is easy if you're a kissass

Disclaimer
 - personal
 - target audience - strictly myself
 - I considered keeping this post private because it is about a specific person. But I think this person will probably be fine with me writing this particular post.

Main
 - I installed a mind sim of someone I know when I decided to write this post. This might be bad actually.
 - Lowkey jealous of this person for finding networking far easier than me.
 - Writing this to remind myself that I should not compare myself to them. Networking is easy if you're a kissass. I would literally rather consider suicide before becoming this sort of person, this is a very old lesson I learned.
 - Networking for truth tellers is much harder. You have to grind far into diminishing returns before you can succeed. 
 - I am trying to achieve a much harder goal than other people, hence I should not be jealous of them. Play the long game. Don't be jealous of other people's short term outcomes. Your primary competition is your past self.