2025-08-04

title update 2026-03-09

Update
 - yeah I can now see why this comes across as petty lol


# People in my life who betrayed commitments with me

## Main

 - Tsalise. insta: tsaliserai1. +91-9366607xxx. Dimapur, Nagaland. Borrowed 400 INR 2025-04-02, Promised return date in 2025-05-01. Not returned as of 2025-05-18
 - Jagdish. +91-8837493xxx. Dimapur, Nagaland. Bangalore. Borrowed 2000 INR in 2024 or early 2025. Promised return date before 2025-03. Not returned as of 2025-05
 - Prince. ex-JNU. +91-7551115xxx. Delhi. Borrowed 2500 INR in 2023. Promised return date in 2023. Not returned as of 2025-05.
 - Wacharin. insta: wacharin_09. +66-944264xxx. Bangkok. Borrowed 4000 THB in 2024. Promised return date in 2024. Not returned as of 2025-05.
 - Shyam. +977-9824276xxx. Pokhara, Nepal. Borrowed 20,000 INR in 2024. Promised return date in 2024. Not returned as of 2025-05.

## Disclaimers etc

Disclaimer
 - If you are worried you'll end up on this list over a misunderstanding, feel free to explicitly bring this up as a conversation topic and discuss it with me.
 - I am aware that many people consider publicly revealing private details of a relationship as highly escalatory.
 - I am likely to publicly escalate only under following circumstances.
   - I have given the person multiple chances to rectify their mistake.
   - I see the relationship as over, with no further option to salveage it.
   - I think you're likely to damage other people's lives just as you've damaged mine.
 - People listed here might have their own side of the story, feel free to ask them for that.
 - This is not an exhaustive list of people who may have harmed me.

Why?
 - This is an experiment.
 - Want to publicly damage reputations of people listed below, by sharing actions that (I claim) they did.
 - Want to set a precedent that due to the internet, it is difficult to hide anything from the public. The upside is you can build a reputation faster, the downside is you can also burn it faster.

Not why
 - For amounts of money that are small for me, I don't really care about the money itself.

How?
 - This page will soon get cached by internet archive, commoncrawl and others, making it hard for anyone including me to delete it from the internet.
 - As of 2025-08 internet search functionality is not accurate enough for anyone to discover this page on their own. This could soon change due to embedding search.

## Comments

 - Anon (paraphrased): This can come across as petty and won't be received well.
   - Samuel: That is possible, unsure if true and unsure what I should do even if that's true.