2024-02-20

Advice (Note)

I am not sure who reads my notes. I want to help all folks, but that may not suit each one. I do not wish to have many split selves on the web. So I may not update these pages a lot. I also do not see giving tips as my main goal.

I feel unsure about giving advice. There is so much advice out there, and much is noise.

1. Proof behind tips

I rate tips by how strong the proof is:

Real proof: It has worked in many cases. A model helps, but real data is key. Large tests help clear doubt.
Model: If many people trust the model, that adds weight. Some near-same proof helps too.

When you see my tips, check if they have real proof or if they are just a guess. Even if a tip helped me, that is just one case. If I have not tried it, it might be pure guesswork.

2. Each case is unique

I try not to say “You must do X.” If I do that, please let me know.

You know your mind. You know your likes and needs. Sharing all with me is hard. So I lack some of that info. You also have your own life set-up, which can take time to explain.

That is why I say “think about X.” It might not help every time. If you see a hole in it, trust your own sense. You lead your life. I am not your guru.